tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post6002928529100081720..comments2023-11-05T13:02:31.705+01:00Comments on TorAa Mirror: Ruben's BirthdayTorAahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05044855607413895442noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-32285792699066479762009-02-03T02:11:00.000+01:002009-02-03T02:11:00.000+01:00Thank you for sharing this with us, Tor. I enjoye...Thank you for sharing this with us, Tor. I enjoyed the pictures so much and I think my favorite is of you with the kids in Chile. I can tell you are always a very proud papa.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10934361605188716826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-5871754311106718332009-02-02T23:43:00.000+01:002009-02-02T23:43:00.000+01:00I can tell what a wonderful guy he was. Life was ...I can tell what a wonderful guy he was. Life was not fair to him and I am so sorry he had to leave you all so soon. Perhaps he is happy and sees all and knows all the answers of LIFE now. You have had great relationships in your life and were all blessed to know each other. My heart goes out to you now with remembering and missing him.Mother of Inventionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03797365678860039018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-42245245209079837792009-02-01T22:28:00.000+01:002009-02-01T22:28:00.000+01:00I thought about you all day the 29th. I was sendi...I thought about you all day the 29th. I was sending you all the good thoughts I would send your way. It must have been a very difficult day. I surely would have been for me. I cannot imagine.<BR/><BR/>Big hug to you and Anna. :)Sandeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06785788498697004273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-35479160538544401982009-02-01T04:52:00.000+01:002009-02-01T04:52:00.000+01:00What a wonderful post! I love the photo of the b...What a wonderful post! I love the photo of the blond brothers!!!!! Great memories to be thankful for...<BR/><BR/>And it is also the week of my mother's birthday... I was sick all week, so excuse the late reading..<BR/><BR/>I am happy for you! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09455800980666388178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-15763971969172666672009-01-31T20:46:00.000+01:002009-01-31T20:46:00.000+01:00Nice tribute to Ruben.Nice tribute to Ruben.Teena in Torontohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14875608173791872449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-15994425361068980202009-01-31T19:09:00.000+01:002009-01-31T19:09:00.000+01:00I admire your openness in this Tor and what a grea...I admire your openness in this Tor and what a great contribution to your Son. I'm sorry I never met him, but at the funeral, I met some of his good friends and that was a warm meeting.<BR/><BR/>Your loss can never be filled, but you have a great deal of good memories and I am glad you are able to dwell on them. You have all the reasons to be proud of Ruben.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-81406471108986009672009-01-31T18:02:00.000+01:002009-01-31T18:02:00.000+01:00@To all of you:Believe it or not:It was a Moment f...@To all of you:<BR/>Believe it or not:<BR/>It was a Moment filled with joy and good memories. With Rubens best friends. It was very positive regarding our journey to be reliefed from our grief.<BR/>With other words, it was, after all, a step forward in the memory of Ruben.<BR/><BR/>Thank you all for your kind words and warm feelings.<BR/><BR/>It's hard, oooh yaahh, but life goes on.<BR/><BR/>Love all<BR/><BR/>Tor and AnnaTorAahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05044855607413895442noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-82135035426306003422009-01-31T15:42:00.000+01:002009-01-31T15:42:00.000+01:00oh yes,I meant Im a year younger. :) I just woke u...oh yes,I meant Im a year younger. :) I just woke up when I came here and my mind was a bit disoriented... :D<BR/><BR/>happy weekend,Tor!Anna is always on your side so hug her tight. :)<BR/><BR/>gheeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-12446636890268070632009-01-31T10:15:00.000+01:002009-01-31T10:15:00.000+01:00I read your post with tears in my eyes Tor.I read your post with tears in my eyes Tor.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-75572228512003338442009-01-31T09:41:00.000+01:002009-01-31T09:41:00.000+01:00This must be an awful day for you. fortunately you...This must be an awful day for you. fortunately you have your souvenirs.Gattinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06636525277807715146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-28635378652275833102009-01-31T03:58:00.000+01:002009-01-31T03:58:00.000+01:00Tor, what a wonderful tribute to your firstborn......Tor, what a wonderful tribute to your firstborn...how you must miss him.Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09504992439212714138noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-85040610425412896672009-01-31T01:55:00.000+01:002009-01-31T01:55:00.000+01:00Such wonderful memories, dear Tor....Beautiful pic...Such wonderful memories, dear Tor....Beautiful pictures, too!<BR/>It is very meanngful to see your very dear family when they were so very young.....Ruben....Your dear dear First Born. I know it was a hard day, but also, so important to remember, and to Honor him.....!<BR/>I know your heart is broken, my dear blog friend...I wish for you just a little bit of healing as time goes by...I know it will never ever really be healed...I understand that. But hopefully the seering pain will subside a little bit as time goes by....I send you big big ((((((((hugs)))))))).OldLady Of The Hillshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02458879772193114892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-59093630769658118792009-01-31T01:47:00.000+01:002009-01-31T01:47:00.000+01:00thank you for sharing more of reuben with us. i'm...thank you for sharing more of reuben with us. i'm glad also on his birthday you could spend some time with his friends who could return some of the love to you that reuben shared with them. peace to you, friend.limehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17259558876349307173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-88860007041421021922009-01-31T01:36:00.001+01:002009-01-31T01:36:00.001+01:00That is so sad, Tor and your grief come through in...That is so sad, Tor and your grief come through in your writing. It's a beautiful tribute to a loved son and it must have been painful to write. But thank you for taking the courage to write it and show it to us.<BR/><BR/>HugsPuss-in-Bootshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02313418336654760327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-91654928729096705272009-01-31T01:36:00.000+01:002009-01-31T01:36:00.000+01:00That is so sad, Tor and your grief come through in...That is so sad, Tor and your grief come through in your writing. It's a beautiful tribute to a loved son and it must have been painful to write. But thank you for taking the courage to write it and show it to us.<BR/><BR/>HugsPuss-in-Bootshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02313418336654760327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-61037074752895018902009-01-31T01:30:00.000+01:002009-01-31T01:30:00.000+01:00My dearest Viking. I do know your pain. It is the ...My dearest Viking. I do know your pain. It is the worst. Be comforted that Ruben loved you so much. I know for me, my comfort is to know that my last words with Katie were "I love you".<BR/>Hugs to you, Anna and Ingelin from your dear friend in New Hampshire!Maribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17435726542598515305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-29828296874357051652009-01-31T01:13:00.000+01:002009-01-31T01:13:00.000+01:00Dear, dear memories to cherish for the rest of lif...Dear, dear memories to cherish for the rest of life. How strange it must be to look at the photos knowing he's gone, but in the same time reminding of good memories. *sigh*<BR/><BR/>At least no one can take away the memories. Or the fact that he had such a loving and caring family.<BR/><BR/>((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-78891446005765841822009-01-31T00:05:00.000+01:002009-01-31T00:05:00.000+01:00Happy Bday to Ruben...This is one of the great way...Happy Bday to Ruben...<BR/><BR/>This is one of the great ways to commemorate him.It also proves that "love" of a mother/father is "unconditional" and never ending.I can feel the overflowing emotions,Tor.Pls take your time to heal the wound...<BR/><BR/>BTW,i was born in 1969.I am one year older than Ruben.I can relate so much with what you`re feeling.Me,myself,lost a father a very long time ago.Until now,he stays in my heart and mind.<BR/><BR/>hugs,<BR/>gheeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-23790496181230442852009-01-30T23:54:00.000+01:002009-01-30T23:54:00.000+01:00All the special days and holidays are so hard, Tor...All the special days and holidays are so hard, Tor, I know. May your tears cleanse you of your unbearable grief. May you find solace in the comfort and love of all your friends around the world!Ginnie Harthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14014434422568561157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-90983800620189023382009-01-30T23:23:00.000+01:002009-01-30T23:23:00.000+01:00I a sorry for your loss Tor, I know you have a who...I a sorry for your loss Tor, I know you have a whole which can never be filled again. You do have many good memories though. All children are gifts and we can never really own them, we can only borrow them for a while.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33640233.post-41451100888654839122009-01-30T23:02:00.000+01:002009-01-30T23:02:00.000+01:00A very sad day for you Tor, very sad, but this is ...A very sad day for you Tor, very sad, but this is a beautiful way to remember his life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com