Sunday, January 25, 2009

Sunday Reflections

Sunday is normally a day to relaxe. This Sunday has been different.
Looking out the Window.
Snow. Oslo. Norway. The photo here is as is. Simply the Light that was. Obscure. Afternoon. Very special colors. I have never seen something alike.

It was time to reflect and act as truely friends can only do.
The persons involved do what papa means. He has had his lesson.


But so much unexpected have happended last week.
Regarding close friends. I will - may be reveal some more during the week to come.
We will also have a memorial on jan 29. My Son Rubens Birthday. I still can not believe he is dead. I accept the fact. But, but -papa is still crying and talking to him. It's so unreal.

Have a great week

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11 Comments:

Blogger Sandee said...

It is indeed a very unusual photograph. An aura if you will.

Some lessons are very difficult to learn. I hope your friend didn't get beat up too badly.

Another day to remember your son. As is with everyday. I'm so sorry that you were dealt this awful blow.

Big hug to you and Anna. :)

January 25, 2009 9:36 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The luminosity is so special! Very nice! I would want to see snow but certainly not this year still! I was so busy all those days and sure I will still! Je penserai à toi et ta famille ce 29 janvier. je ne sais que te dire. Il n'y a pas de mots... Je vous embrasse bien fort Anna et toi.

January 25, 2009 10:11 pm  
Blogger Maribeth said...

hello my dear Viking. I just returned from my uncle's memorial service. I gave his eulogy and yes, I cried at the end. He was such a special man in my life. True goodness. (You know he is my cousin Janet's, (www.fonfofsnape.com) father.
All the family and so many friends came. It was beautiful. I did well in my talk until the end. Oh well, I think perhaps our tears help to cleanse our souls of the grief.
I will think of you on Ruben's birthday.
My love and Hugs to you, Anna and Ingelin

January 26, 2009 12:46 am  
Blogger Unknown said...

What an odd color of the sky.

Ruben's birthday must be a bittersweet day. Happy memories but sad for his loss.

Hugs to you and Anna.

January 26, 2009 3:03 am  
Blogger Puss-in-Boots said...

Wow, what a peculiar light in the photograph, Tor. You did well to capture it as it was.

It takes a while to go through the grieving process, Tor. You can't rush it, but one day, although there will be sadness, it won't be that deep searing grief you're experiencing now, but it takes time.

January 26, 2009 10:02 am  
Blogger Shadow said...

it's only natural to never forget, to still cry... my heart goes out to you!

and your photo is truly amazing!!!!!

January 26, 2009 11:30 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oldest son was in Oslo during the week-end. he told me about the snow ;-)
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January 26, 2009 8:42 pm  
Blogger OldLady Of The Hills said...

That is a fabulous picture...The "colors" are so unusual, Tor....WOW! Like a Painting!

I know these are hard days, especially around and leading up to your dear son's Birthday. My thoughts and my heart reach out to yours, my dear....This is still a raw wound, and understandable so, dear Tor.....

January 27, 2009 3:31 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thats indeed a lovely scene!

awww,Tor,Happy Bday to Ruben...im sure he is happy wherever he is now...and still staying by your side...

so please cheer up!
hugggsss!
ghee

January 29, 2009 12:58 am  
Blogger lime said...

beautiful photo.

gentle thoughts to you during this time.

January 29, 2009 3:57 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Very special light indeed, it looks like a painting. Beautiful though.

Yeah, it's seem to be unbelievable times. I hope there will be unbelievable good times this year too!

((Hugs))

January 29, 2009 11:13 pm  

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